七种办法帮你找到人生真理

【美文】七种办法帮你找到人生真理

 
Figure out what you need

Sometimes it’s hard to figure out what you need. Sit down and think about what you need the most. Is it your family? The freedom to express yourself? Love? Financial security? Something else? If it helps, you can make a list of priorities. Also think about the kind of legacy you want to leave behind.

想想你需求什么

有的时分，去想出你所需求的东西也不是一件简单事儿。坐下来，想想你最需求什么。你的家庭？自在地表达你自己？爱情？经济保证？仍是其他的东西？假如它的确有协助，你能够列一个优先考虑的清单。相同的，你也要想想你想去留下的遗产。

Determine what really bothers you

You can soar only by pushing back against something you don’t want. Figure out what upsets you, and be specific about it. Don’t just say that you hate your office job. Pinpoint exactly why you hate it. Could it be your micromanaging boss? Your workload? Your meaningless job title? Or all of the above? What bothers you, and how can you fix it? How much do you want to fix it?

确认那些烦你的东西

只需在推走那些你不想要的东西后，你才干高飞。想想有什么事物在困扰着你，必定要想详细点。不要单纯地说你厌烦你的办公室作业。精确地讲讲你为什么厌烦它。是由于你管得太细太严的上司？你的作业量？你那没有意义的职称？仍是以上的悉数？究竟是什么在困扰着你？你将会怎样去处理它们？你想处理多少？

Be selfish

You can’t pinpoint exactly what you want in life if you’re constantly sacrificing your time and dreams for other people. You have to put yourself first. Ask yourself: If you weren’t tied down by your job, family, friends, or anything else, then what would you be doing right now? Always remember that it’s okay to put yourself first, because if you don’t, then no one else will.

自私点

假如你一向是为了他人而献身你自己的时刻和期望，那你就不能精确地定位你究竟想在日子中得到什么。首要，你得把你自己放在第一位。问问自己：假如你没有被你的工作、家庭、朋友或是其他的事所捆绑，那么你现在将在做什么呢？永久要记住这一点，你能够先考虑你自己，由于假如你不这样，那么也不会有其他人把你放在第一位了。

Regret nothing

Don’t feel bad for being selfish. It’s your life. It’s time for you to live it exactly the way you want to. If you constantly regret things you did or didn’t do in the past, then you won’t be able to move forward. Don’t live in the past. Live in the present...and the future!

别懊悔

不要由于自己自私就感到不安，这是你自己的人生。现在便是大好的韶光让你去以你期望的办法去日子。假如你总是懊悔你曾经所做过或没有做过的工作的话，那么你就不能向前进了。不要活在曩昔；反之，要活在现在，活在将来！

Determine what makes you truly happy

There’s no waste to life if you’re happy living it. Your happiness is the root of your desires. So take a few moments and really think about what makes you happy. Is it traveling? Being around children? Owning a successful business? Your significant other? Financial freedom? Once you pinpoint the one thing that makes you happy the most, you’ll have a pretty clear idea of what you should strive for in your life.

决议那些让你高兴的事

假如你高兴地过着日子，你的生命就没有糟蹋掉。你的高兴是你的期望之源。所以，无妨花上一小会儿的时刻，细心想想，是什么让你美好高兴？是你有意义的另一半？是你经济上的自在？一旦你定位好了那件让你最高兴的事，你就能够开端细心想想，你应该为你的生命争夺点什么？

Let people around you know what you’re trying to achieve

Don’t keep your goals and desires to yourself. Voice it all out! If you tell people what you’re trying to accomplish, they will most likely support you and give you new ideas. Sometimes mother does know best!

让你身边的人知道你的尽力方向

不要只把你的方针和期望藏在心里。大声说出来！假如你告知了人们你想要完结的东西，他们将很可能支撑你，而且给你新的主意。有时分妈妈知道的最多！

Stay positive

Life doesn’t always go how you want it. Don’t feel dismay as your plans stray. Take control. Instead of freaking out, try your best to roll with the changes. You will get there someday. You’re just taking a little detour. Sometimes a positive attitude is all you need to keep going.

活跃向上

日子不总是依照你所期望的方向走。当你的方案违背现实时，千万不要悲观。操控好自己。你要做的是尽悉数尽力去抵挡这些改动，而不是想入非非。你总有一天将会抵达你期望的对岸的。你只需略微绕绕道就行了。有时分，你所需求的坚持下去的悉数，便是一个活跃的心态！